There has been a lot going on this weekend, so I really haven’t had the time to sit down and blog like I would like. Friday I did end up taking Ellie into the doctor just to be on the safe side. I wanted to make sure she got seen before the weekend hit in case she did have an ear infection that would only get worse.
The good news is her ears look great, and she doesn’t have any sign of infection, but I wasn’t expecting to hear the nurse and nurse practitioner tell me she’s not gaining enough weight. What? Have they seen the thighs on my child? She has so many fat rolls on her thighs diapers don’t fit her right. She has 2 extra fat rolls on the inside of her diaper, and I constantly have people telling me “you need to stop feeding that baby too much. She’s too fat.”
They told me she’s “lost” weight since she was 15lb 8oz at her 6 month checkup, and Friday she was 17lbs even at 8 months. Basically she hasn’t gained as much weight as she did in the last 2 month period, so to them that means she must be losing weight. The nurse practitioner kept asking me over and over again if I was sure she was eating enough. My child will eat 24/7 if I’ll let her. I did let her know that she has been teething, and she refused solids while she was popping through her 2 teeth, but she will never turn down the boob. I also brought up the fact that she’s mobile now. She’s all over the place in her walker, and she also spends a lot of time jumping in her Jumperoo.
She’s always been below the 25th percentile for weight, and now she’s right at the 25th. I don’t understand how it’s calculating that she’s losing weight. The doctor has always told me not to worry about her size because she’s not only a small framed baby who comes from a family of small babies, but she was 5 weeks premature. Sometimes I think the nurse practitioner forgets to take this into account.
I know my child is eating like a pig, and those massive fat rolls everywhere tell me I’m probably worrying about what was said about her weight more than I should. I do take into consideration that she’s playing catch up from being a preemie, and babies gain weight at different paces. If she were actually losing weight, as in dropping from 15.8 to let’s say 15.6 instead of gaining 1.5lbs I’d be worried.
I swear every single time I leave the doctor’s office with her I feel like I need to find wrinkle creams that really work. These doctors and nurses are stressing me out and making me feel like I’m aging before my time. Sigh.
Oh, and the other bad news is that Ellie was perfectly healthy in the doctor’s office, but as soon as we got home she started feeling lousy again. She started coughing, and within a couple hours she sounded like she was losing her voice. Her cries were raspy, and she sounded congested even though her lungs were clear in the doctor’s office. She was like this most of the weekend, but Sunday she woke up happy as could be and sounding clear as a whistle. I do now believe the ear stuff is sinus/allergy related as it seemed to go away with everything else.